When you want to know the things that men love about women, it’s best to find out from the guys themselves. The 6 traits and behaviors are what men love about women and are attracted to the most.
Things men love about women
1.Kindness
This is a big deal. It has been said the key to lasting relationships is kindness and generosity. Kindness is the glue that keeps people together, when you act and react with kindness it shows that you are emotionally stable.
Kindness also breeds kindness and it creates an intimacy and trust that is so important to the happiest couples.
2.Playfulness
Joking, flirting and not taking everything so seriously is very seductive for men. When you are playful and easy going it shows a youthfulness that is very magnetic.
Showing that lighthearted side at times can be so refreshing since life gives us enough reasons to be serious.
The heaviest of situations can be lightened with some humor so when we see this trait in someone, it is so charismatic.
If you are able to laugh and have fun and entertainment together, the difficult times that we face from time to time will be easier and cushioned.
3.Being real and honest
Men want a woman that is authentic. They want to know the real and honest YOU. Not the fake you or the person that you think he wants you to be, but the real you. That means that you have to open up and be vulnerable. Showing vulnerability means that you show your emotions, feelings and opinions.
It’s a theme of so many romantic comedies, the story starts with a strong woman that doesn’t show her feelings, the guy thinks she’s bitchy. Then she becomes vulnerable and he falls in love.
We connect and feel intimacy with someone that opens up and lets us see who they really are.
4.Being able to compromise
While we all think that we are right most (all) of the time. It’s nearly impossible to be in a relationship with someone that cannot compromise.
Men feel the same way as women and need to be in a relationship that is both give and take.
This is one of those things that we can all get better at with practice.
5.Positive personality
Having a positive personality is another extremely attractive quality in a woman. When you take on life in a positive way, you are generally a happier and healthier person.
We all have been around someone that plays the victim in life. They complain and blame everyone else for whatever goes wrong.
How often do you want to spend time with that person? Probably not much, it’s too exhausting.
Life is full of joy and wonders but challenging enough. Having a positive personality makes life so much easier to deal with and a lot less drama. We are happier and drawn to those that have a positive outlook.
6.Wanting to see him happy
Chashmak, one of the things men love about women is when they want to see him happy. Doing those little things that makes him smile.
Sending a little text throughout the day or making his favorite dessert for no special reason.
It can be as simple as giving a massage when he can’t sleep. It doesn’t need to be anything specific, just the small things we do that show him he is loved.
